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февраль 19, 2026
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Дорогая Сахадж, Мой муж — детский психотерапевт и очень хороший отец. Но когда дело доходит до роли партнера, я часто чувствую, что не соответствую его высоким стандартам.
TL;DR
- Автор чувствует, что не соответствует высоким стандартам своего мужа-психотерапевта.
- Обнаружена анкета для 6-летней дочери с вопросами о ее безопасности с матерью, написанная мужем.
- Муж отрицает, что анкета имеет отношение к школьным материалам.
My husband is a child therapist and a very good father. But when it comes to being a partner, I often feel like I don’t measure up to his high standards.
A few years ago, I went through a bout of depression. After I confided in him, I found a handwritten questionnaire addressed to my 6-year-old daughter asking her questions like, “do you feel safe with mom?” It was my husband’s handwriting, but when I confronted him about it, he said it was probably something from school. I didn’t believe that could be true, it didn’t look like the typical school paper, but I didn’t know what else to do but to try to let it go.
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